Very good replies, Cimics.
About 'Hades' and 'hell.'
Its not that I am banning the word 'hell' by any means. For example, if everyone in the particular discussion has agreed to mean a specific thing by the word- or any word for that matter- then it really doesn't matter one way or the other.
The problem Stathei, is that you were asking a question employing a word sloppily covering a number of concepts. I'm not saying that YOU were doing the slopping. This slopping has been done by translators themselves. I took a leap of faith in guessing exactly what concept you meant by the word, but to continue talking about it without being crystal clear is only going to create more trouble down the road.
I think this problem is illustrated marveously by this view:
"but I believe that the rule is only there because you, alone, personally don't like that word."
That belief is patently false. The Scriptures make precise use of the different words in the original languages. I only 'don't like the word' because it leads to confusion in the end, and when we are talking with someone like you, for example, that confusion is right around the corner. Next thing we'll know, we'll be talking about the subject and you will run to the scriptures to try to prove your point from them and find a passage translated 'hell,' but actually written as 'hades' and ignore the fact that the point in question is a passage (still translated 'hell') that uses 'gehenna.'
At that time, when it is pointed out that the passage you are using doesn't support your point, you will likely cry foul. However, if you examine the issue in advance we can eliminate that game from the beginning.
I suspect you will feel patronized to if I just leave it at 'a person like you.' So allow me to clarify how I see you. You seem to be a person acquainted with the bare terminology of Christianity and a spattering of the concepts. It would not surprise me to learn that you attended confirmation classes somewhere, or even that you went to a Christian school. It is evident that you have never dug deeply into the foundations of Christianity, however, to understand what educated Christians mean when they talk to each other. Its only being respectful to recognize this, and either be humbly receptive to correction when it is offered (instead of trying to make it sound as though your question was being avoided) or take the time to do some digging in yourself so that you'll be more confident that you will be correctly interpreted when you use the words. Its nothing different then you might do, if for example, you wanted to ask an orthodontist about his practice and procedures.
The 'forum rule' was actually implemented because of a number of end time discussions AMONG CHRISTIANS where there was intense equivocation going on. You can go on using the word 'hell' all you like. But don't get upset when people (like I did in this thread) refuse to accept the terms of your statement. Its more "When did you stop beating your wife" stuff.