EB,
"This may indeed be a fact but it is clearly an irrelevant one, since comparing all homosexuals to monogamous heterosexuals is a loaded comparison with the intent to negatively stigmatise homosexuality. Not only is your comparison bogus, but your conclusion also makes little sense. Why would a higher STD rate be indicative of "unnaturalness"? That would make unprotected sex less "natural" than sex with a condom."
And this is a highly transparent denial that indicates no interest in facts at all. If the facts show homosexuality generally leads to negative consequence then by golly, homosexuality is going to be viewed negatively. Just like when every other behaviour is examined. Are you going to say 'well the fact pedophilia causes harm to children is irrelevant simply because it negatively stigmatises pedophilia'? Pleeeeeeease.This answer bears little relation to what i wrote. Whether you understand this or not, you cannot compare homosexuals with monogamous heterosexuals and expect to draw valid conclusions about the differences between homo and heterosexuality. If i compared all heterosexuals with monogamous homosexuals then i might find that the heterosexuals had a higher rate of STDs. But that would tell me little about the differences between the two sexualities, because i would be making a loaded comparison (possibly with the intent to negatively stigmatise heterosexuality, by golly!).
And homosexuality being linked to a higher rate of STDs (something you have yet to provide any solid evidence for, by the way) is a world away from your statement that "homosexuality generally leads to negative consequences". You are developing something of a track record of massively exaggerating the facts. Driving a car is more dangerous than flying, but that doesn't automatically translate as "car driving generally leads to collisions". Clearly the level of danger that an activity poses is not the only criteria on which we evaluate its advisability, and it certainly has little or nothing to do with its "naturalness", as you originally suggested it did.
Let me just lay this out for you (in my role as a medical professional). In terms of STD transmission:
Unprotected anal sex - very risky (some male homosexuals do this, as do some heterosexuals)
Unprotected vaginal sex - pretty risky (plenty of heterosexuals do this)
Anal sex with a condom - still some risk (male homosexuals and heterosexuals)
Vaginal sex with a condom - still a bit of risk (heterosexuals)
Unprotected oral sex - small risk (heterosexuals, gays and lesbians)
Protected oral sex or non-penetrative sex in general - low risk (heterosexuals, gays and lesbians)
Do you see why i might not be convinced that
all homosexuals are necessarily more at risk?
This is sheer assertion and denial. As the amount of promiscuous homosexuals does make "monogamous" homosexuals a rarity more than a commonality no matter how much you whine and rail against the fact.Bluster and exaggerate all you like EB. Since you have refused to draw the same conclusions about other more-promiscuous-then-average social groups, you demonstrate that this matter is actually irrelevant to your condemnation of homosexuals. Yet you continue to air your ill-informed prejudices on the subject. i repeat,
none of the major risk factors for acquiring STDs are related to sexuality. Certain non-sexuality-specific behaviours are high risk, and i would join you in urging people not to engage in those behaviours. i will not be joining you, however, in condemning an entire group of people because
some of them are promiscuous and foolishly careless when it comes to using protection. Some people in every group do that.
i think you would be wise to quit throwing out random reasons to disapprove of homosexual sex, or to consider it unnatural, and just stick to whatever you consider to be solid ground. Your contention that homosexuality subverts the self-evident design of reproductive systems ignores, as i mentioned, that the penis is both an organ of waste disposal
and reproduction. On that basis, why shouldn't the anus be used as an organ of pleasure (not my thing really, but if other people consensually enjoy it then why not). Also, the majority of heterosexual couples practice oral sex, which has no reproductive purpose.
And all you did was go on a ranting tirade in response. Which amounted to just more denial. Though the idea of investigating STDs must be looked for anywhere, but an STD clinic is rather funny.It
is funny that my methodically pointing out, as someone who reads scientific papers for reasons other than to bolster their prejudices, the various inaccuracies and mis-attributions in the link you gave somehow translates in your brain to a "ranting tirade of denial". Your inability to understand that an STD clinic, while a marvelous place to study STDs, is a very bad place to assess STD rates in the general population (because cases will be unrepresentatively clustered there) is a little worrying. Look, here's an example:
This large study by the UK's Office for National Statistics has just been published giving some interesting data about Gay people in Britain. It is discussed a little more readably
here. What are the main findings? Well, it gives a surprisingly low percentage of the UK population identifying as homosexual or bisexual (1.5%). Previous studies have suggested something more like 6%. However, the way this study was conducted was largely by face-to-face doorstep interviews, so it could be understood that some people might have reservations about disclosing their sexuality to a stranger in this way. If you notice, roughly 4% of people refused to answer that question. Now (pay attention), although it would fit my preexisting beliefs to assume that all of that 4% were homosexual, the facts do not support that conclusion. They may or may not have been.
Another interesting finding for me, in the context of this discussion, is that the percentages of straight and gay respondants who said that their health was "good" was near-identical. But what can we reliably infer from that? Does someone saying that their health is good necessarily mean that it
is good? What about the (hypothesised) gay people who refused to answer the sexuality question? Is it likely that not being able to publicly acknowledge your sexuality might correlate with more risky sexual behaviour and therefore poorer health? Maybe. Is the question just too vague altogether to yield meaningful results?
You may also notice that 45% of the homosexual respondants were cohabiting (i.e. with a partner), rather than living alone. That seems to provide counter-evidence to your suggestion that monogamous homosexuals are a "rarity". But how many of those established couples are faithful? We can't tell from this data.
That is the way that i would really like you to approach research studies on this subject - with a questioning attitude. Not with the i'll-accept-and-then-defend-to-the-death-any-study-that-makes-gays-look-bad attitude which you have displayed thus far.
Actually in the beginning you tried to squirm your way into getting out of what constitutes being "natural" as well and even do so up to blah blah blah it was shown how you basicly chopped your own legs out from under you blah blah rationalization used to justify homosexuality in any sense equally applies to things like infanticide, pedophilia, etc.Ok. This is the last time i go through this for you.
i have not justified homosexuality on the basis that it is "natural".
i think homosexuality is natural, but that's not why i think it is ok.
i agree that infanticide is also natural in some circumstances.
At no point did i say that everything that any animal does is therefore natural for humans.
There's no "strawmen" to it DB. You even try to justify your ad hoc reasoning, or will this be another "inconvenient detail" to ignore? The truth does seem to be getting rather inconvenient for you.Deliberately or otherwise, you are just talking nonsense here. Your continued accusations of inconsistency are invariably based on totally obvious strawmen which you justify with these rambling taunts about my supposed mendacity. You quote things i have said which actually demonstrate me trying to correct your apparently uncorrectable misunderstandings of my position. If you were an idiot this would be more excusable.
I think your letting your beliefs determine your interpretation for you. As motivations of "compassion" can only be known if it's revealed, and as I doubt apes and such can talk, you don't know for a fact compassion was the motivating intent rather than something else, and are simply personifying. Though such acts of seeming altruism do hurt evolutionary theory of 'survival of the fittest'. 
You seem to want to have it both ways there. As for your suggestion of unjustified anthropomorphism, i would say that just as potentially dangerous would be your apparent stance of anthropo-denial - the position that behaviour on the part of non-humans can
never be interpretted in a "human" way. Apes can't talk, you are right, but chimps have been shown in experimental conditions to literally starve themselves if the only way of getting food (pulling a certain lever) caused pain to another chimp (electric shocks delivered to a chimp in another cage - i didn't say these were very ethical experiments). Now if you have an interpretation for that behaviour other than a morality based on compassion then i would love to hear it, but it seems patently obvious to me that the most reasonable explanation for this, and many other examples of apes behaving in selfless ways, is that they share our empathy for one another.
And no, acts of altruism do not hurt the idea of "survival of the fittest". Educate yourself on the subject of
kin selection.
And as I don't concede mankind has changed an iota from 5th Century BCE to 21st Century your "point" is pretty much moot.You don't think the way we treat each other (on average) has improved at all?
I agree an objective morality exists irregardless of personal belief, though it's highly arrogant that you think you know what goes on in everyone's mind as "proof" of your standard. 
Where did i say that?
I'm saying as an atheist you don't get to claim having one and be consistent. Not the least of which is because an objective moral standard can only come from an objective Moral Lawmaker which is problematic to an atheist. You've never once answered what your standard is based on as I asked.Just repeating yourself does not an argument make. Nor does selective blindness, since i have explained what my objective moral standard is based upon - wellbeing vs suffering. The interesting thing here is that if you were having this kind of conversation with a Muslim, you might both agree that an objective moral standard exists, but disagree about whose was right. You would say that he was mistaken in his belief that he had access to the objective moral standard, and he would say likewise to you. Your conversation would therefore be unlikely to go any further, because it would come down to both of you asserting "my god's real, and yours isn't", because that is all that your supposed objective standard is based upon.
My objective moral standard, on the other hand, is based on real mental states, some of which it is good to promote, others which are less desirable, rather than being contingent on the outcome (not likely anytime soon) of the theological battle for supremacy between the myriad competing religious certainties in the world, yours being only one. So try not to get too sniffy about my failure to invoke a deity to prop-up my morality. It's actually a strength rather than a weakness.
As such even your "objective" standard is just subjective opinion, made even more obvious by the fact by your own admission no one must care about other people's state of being.And in your worldview,
must other people care? And if they don't, what can you do about it? And how is your morality so much better than mine again?
Tell me as an atheist exactly what's the point of refraining from doing "wrong" if one is able to get away with it till they die of old age or natural causes?Depends what you mean by "wrong". i have done things in the past which i consider to be "wrong", and i would avoid doing them in the future because of the consequences they had for me and others around me. Some of the things which you consider to be "wrong" i enjoy very much, since they hurt no one and bring pleasure and happiness to others, i hope to go on doing them until i die of old age.
Like I said, under atheism it's all determined by the god of self. Unfortunately for you we have 6 billion little gods who don't agree.Wellbeing and suffering is quantifiable, and is independent of the selfishness which you attribute (with some justification) to all human beings. You asked for an objective standard. i gave you one. Ignore it if you wish.
I imagine the stoning was due to consentual sex. Your use of rape is just your wild ranting.Again, you are trying to take something from the text which does not appear in it. Here is the relevant text:
If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her, and give occasions of speech against her, and bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I came to her, I found her not a maid: Then shall the father of the damsel, and her mother, take and bring forth the tokens of the damsel's virginity unto the elders of the city in the gate: And the damsel's father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her; And, lo, he hath given occasions of speech against her, saying, I found not thy daughter a maid; and yet these are the tokens of my daughter's virginity. And they shall spread the cloth before the elders of the city. And the elders of that city shall take that man and chastise him; And they shall amerce him in an hundred shekels of silver, and give them unto the father of the damsel, because he hath brought up an evil name upon a virgin of Israel: and she shall be his wife; he may not put her away all his days.
But if this thing be true, and the tokens of virginity be not found for the damsel: Then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her father's house: so shalt thou put evil away from among you.A woman who cannot
prove that she was a virgin on her wedding night, by showing the bloody sheets from her deflowerment, is liable to be stoned to death if her husband makes an accusation against her. How she lost her virginity does not appear to be a cause for concern, only the fact that she cannot prove her "purity". That is what it says.
Your outlook of OT passages regarding Israeli law is simply due to self-imposed ignorance, arrogance of being nearly 3,000 years removed when people weren't so pansy about things, and your love of sin. 
Not so
pansy about stoning young women to death? Yeah, i do get a little squeamish about that - it's a major failing of mine. The truth is that your "chosen" people under the direct supervision of God behaved no better than the most ignorant fundamentalist communities in the Middle East today, which neither of us would credit with having divine guidance. Duck and dodge all you like.
You don't have kids do you? Or you must have ignored their outright rebeliousness against you and equal parts bad behaviour to go along with that empathy. It actually just futhers the Biblical belief that human beings are born with inherent knowledge of good and evil.That the empathy exists independent of it being taught, was my point. We obviously find different explanations for that phenomenon compelling.
Since objective morality is only possible under a theistic pardigm that's something I can consistently say and atheists can't. I think you'd actually be disturbed at how I would personally want things to be done.But your "objective morality" is not the same as other people's "objective morality". Just like your God is not the same as other people's God. Ultimately, the only sensible thing to do in this situation, with everyone basing their conflicting morality on metaphysical claims, is to find an objective system of morality which is grounded in the real world. Pain, suffering and happiness are all real things.
Morality under theism means "sin" is conveyed as being a transgression against God. It's grounded on His very existance (at least under Christianity). It doesn't matter what people accept.So precisely what use is it in a conversation with a non-Christian (who, may i remind you, are in the majority)? Not to mention the vast array of differing Christian positions about what exactly God wants and requires of us. As i said, to say that something is a sin is to convey
zero factual information beyond "i don't like it". Your preferences, in other words.
See? You did abandon it.You are a moron. Sorry, that's unfair - you're
behaving like a moron. i was abundantly clear that i had not limited the assessment of wellbeing/suffering resulting from an action to the period immediately after it is performed. i abandoned nothing, and you were so predictable in your pathetic little "gotcha" that it kind of hurt to watch.
You don't object to suffering so long as it leads to greater well being later, and even (potentially) justify drug use because it's pleasurable aspect outweighs the rather obvious consequences in your head. Now how many atrocities have been justified and are being argued for in order to 'save the world' and such? Seems to fit well within your personal standard.Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. For instance, if someone like you tells me that it is necessary to stone a woman to death, with all the unimaginable pain and suffering that entails, in order to prevent God from throwing a hissy fit about unpunished prenuptial fornication and zap the entire world into dust, then i would require some pretty compelling argumentation to convince me of that necessity on a balance of wellbeing vs suffering basis. If, on the other hand, someone shows me studies that marijuana has no fatal dose (unlike alcohol), is not clearly linked to acts of violence (unlike alcohol) and doesn't kill a good proportion of its users with cancer later in life (unlike tobacco), then i see little reason - since alcohol and tobacco are both legal (and i agree that they should be) - for marijuana not to be legal also.
"So the Nazis were right about homosexuals in your view? Maybe they were also right about the disabled, or the gypsies?"
Apparently "even a broken clock is right twice a day" is too complicated for you to grasp. Perhaps you would change your tune about pedophilia if Nazis showed to be against that as well, is that it?Your broken clock analogy doesn't seem to apply, since the Nazis objected to homosexuality in near-identical terms to you. If they had objected for some other reasons then i might accept the idea that there was no common ground between you. However, since you seem to find the suggestion upsetting, perhaps i should say that i hear they also made the trains run on time, and i do like punctual public transport. Is that better?
I never said you hated me. But you do hate Christianity or at least a lot of it's stand on issues, which may not be fully represented by those you know given many Christians in this day and age.Hating Christianity would be like you hating Narnia. It's just a story - what's to hate? i strongly dislike some fundamentalist interpretations of Christianity, based on the negative effect that they have on the world.
Then you truly don't know what the "Christian position" is. Especially since you seem to base your view off any erroneous source, rather than the only one that truly matters. You know, the one Christianity is entirely based on.More of this "i'm right and everyone else is wrong", as if that meant anything to anyone except you. You do not represent the majority Christian viewpoint, which is something quantifiable, as opposed to your claim of theological excellence, which is not.
"If i went to church every Sunday, would that make me a Christian?"
I laughed when I saw this example earlier and I'm laughing now. What exactly gave you the idea all one has to do is go to church to be a Christian? You'd be a church-goer by the very definition, but do you even know what the requirment for being a Christian is, or do you think the only requirement for being a government employee is to walk into any government owned building?Man, it's like pulling teeth.
So, if behaviour alone wouldn't make me a Christian, how come behaviour is all that it takes to define a homosexual in your eyes? Especially since being a Christian is
entirely environmentally determined, whereas homosexuality has a demonstrable genetic component.
...by your own standard of pleasure=good you have no basis for matters of sexuality. Your appeals to "harm" has always been dodgy at best, and given your above admittance that even temporary "suffering" is ok makes your reasonign against pedophilia even more ambiguous.i would say that a raped child was one of the clearest possible examples of "harm", both physical and psychological. And temporary suffering can only be justified if there is a reliable later (and greater) resulting benefit. What are you suggesting the positive byproduct of being raped as a child might be in your skewed little world?
What basis do you have to say puberty is the differential line?The definition of pedophilia. Did you not look it up like i asked you to?
Why not when the child understands the consequences of sex (since that seems to be the only basis you give for 'consent')? If that occurs at 10, why not allow them to have sex at 10.Gosh that's an interesting question. i have an idea along the same lines - why don't we individually assess young people to see when they're ready to handle the consequences of drinking alcohol? No more of this authoritarian line drawing, maybe some people can deal responsibly with beer at eighteen, sixteen, or even twelve. Or is there perhaps a good reason for having a dividing line, before which some may be competent to decide for themselves, but after which hopefully most of them will be.
And some people would just dismiss those facts as irrelevant ones. Loaded comparisons with the intent to negatively stigmatise pedophilia. Or accuse such studies as being distortions for ideological ends, and assert counter "proof". Seems not that different to the issue of homosexuality at all. 
You appear to have nothing. That's certainly the impression i am getting.