But you said: If what society thinks is inconsequential, then God's judgment is inconsequential. It is society that must maintain and enforce morality.
Perhaps you can explain how you can subjectively judge a society when morality is based partly on your subjective feelings and partly on what the society thinks. How do you know which part is controlling on the issue which you judge? Is that determined from your subjective viewpoint? Or from the society in question?
I don't think that societies are quite the same as individuals, but one can evaluate the behavior of groups on the basis of one's own feelings of right and wrong. Your mistake is to jump to the conclusion that, because society plays a significant role in shaping our feelings of right and wrong, I am claiming that our subjective feelings are whatever society dictates to be right and wrong. Clearly, we develop feelings of conscience from a variety of sources--family, friends, church, community, school, and so on. Individual, idiosyncratic conscience is the regulator of "right" and "wrong" feelings, and that is shaped by experience.
Moral restrictions are rules that tell us how to interact safely and comfortably with other people. We feel that there is something "objective" about morality, because we need a set of shared values in order to have that good social interaction. Hence, morality is always being adjusted and fine-tuned in our own minds, and it is the subject of negotiation with others when there is a perceived difference in values. Social authority is a big influence on what determines that shared set of values, and what greater social authority is there than God? Divine authority trumps secular authority. Hence, we use God in our moral negotiations with others. Whoever can slap the label "God's Will" on the moral issues they are promoting comes up the winner. Religious skeptics spoil the negotiation strategy, because they don't accept the "God's Will" as an important factor in determining morality. So my religious friends are always asking pointed questions about why I don't want to steal things, torture babies, or rob banks, as if they would do such things in the absence of belief in a god.
Wrongdoing diminishes a person's worth, and it is on that basis that society penalizes the wrongdoer--fines, incarceration, loss of voting rights, death, etc.
Your reasoning would fit in nicely with the Bush doctrine of indefinitely holding "enemy combatants." They have no worth so they have no rights.
Indeed, isn't that just what the people in power have been arguing? Myself, I think that the enemy combatants have been deprived of their rights under both US law and US ideals about rights and freedoms. I consider the current bunch in power to be highly immoral and corrupt, because their behavior does not agree with my values and what I think society's values should be.
No, wrongdoing does NOT diminish the person's worth. People should be treated differently who violate the rules not because they have less worth but because our respect for the worth of their victims or potential victims (or even their own in the case of attempted suicide) requires the different treatment.
Sorry to disagree, but I think that the different "required treatment" follows from their diminished social status. If you willingly harm other people, then you will be deprived of rights that everyone else is presumed entitled to on the basis of their equal status. Social privilege is linked to social status in every human society. That is fundamental.
But again, a question arises whether these rules make sense just taking into account God's valuation of human beings. As I have pointed out earlier, the moral framework I have set out is non-authoritarian, and thus wholly objective, rather than authoritarian and therefore subjective as to God (of course, there is Ben's criticism that it is still subjective as to God, but as I respond to him, all of reality is subjective as to God in that event).
I think that your concept of "objective morality" is unclear and different from what people normally mean by that term. To the extent that it is not authoritarian, it turns out to be little different from what most of us have been calling "subjective morality". That is, there are general principles that act as moral guidelines, and one's interpretation of those principles can vary.
(4) Even if the marriage were considered wrong, the punishment is clearly disproportionate...
The punishment was disproportionate in your eyes, but you do not know how it would appear in the eyes of the father's peers.
Immaterial. The punishment is clearly disproportionate from an objective standpoint. His feelings and social standing are hurt, she dies. Objectively measurable difference there.
Nothing is objective where there are conflicting values. As I said earlier, morality is subject to constant negotiation. Legal systems exist to resolve those negotiations in nonviolent ways. You don't share the father's values, so you condemn his behavior as "objectively" wrong. That is nothing more than rhetoric.
Social learning can occur. Just as we did not always know all the principles of mathematics (take calculus for example), understanding morality can be a learning experience. The principles of calculus were true before humans understood them, and so are the principles of morality.
If you want to go with a math metaphor, fine. Let's think of moral justice as some kind of complex equation that gets solved, where the outcome depends on how you instantiate the variables. How you instantiate the variables is the subjective part. An "objective morality", in the sense that we normally use the term, refers to a situation where the same values are plugged into the same equation all the time. You seem to have decided that one can call morality the same if we just regard it as a fixed equation no matter what values you plug into the formula. Do you see our disagreement? It is basically terminological. There can be no objective "right" or "wrong" when people cannot agree on how to weight their moral variables.
People can be ignorant of the facts. That ignorance does not change the facts. As for God's judgment, since He values men and women equally, then they should be treated with equal respect, in marriage or out.
But people disagree over what constitutes "equal respect", and God's judgment is whatever one imagines it to be. Men and women have differences, and there is consideral disagreement over how those differences should be accomodated socially. For example, does a woman have the moral right to terminate a pregnancy without the consent of the male who impregnated her? Does the blastocyst have a right to become a child if the host mother does not want it to develop into a child? Does a fetus have the right to be born if its birth would kill the mother? These are situations where the facts can be clearly known, but the moral answer is not objectively obvious.
Well, we do disagree on a couple of things. I think that my definition more accurately capture what people think of as objective morality.
Even if it does, that does not make my use of the term improper.
Is different usage "improper"? Unless all parties agree to the same usage, it can be misleading and confusing. I don't see many of our differences as substantive. They are mainly terminological.
That's an interesting thought. Why does it make you a "better person" to treat people better than they deserve? For me, the operative phrase her is "than they deserve". What gives you a sense of what people deserve? Proportionality? But I thought that proportionality was one of your moral cornerstones. Here you appear to be saying that it would be "better" to override that judgment. Better in what sense?
People can do more than the minimum morality. Risking your life to save someone else, for example. Or forgiving a debt. God showed the way to performing actions beyond basic morality with the sacrifice of Christ on the cross. Treating people better than they deserve would be to act more like God. Worth, equality, and proportionality describe a moral floor. You shouldn't fall below it, but you can certainly exceed it, and as Christians, treating people better than they deserve would show our own appreciation for what God has done for us.
I think that the religious story attempts to capture a very important principle. The "eye for an eye" equation of the OT, gets us into endless cycles of violence/retaliation. It is very natural for humans to see proportional reciprocity as valid in the abstract, but they seldom agree on what is proportional in practice. The Christian principle of going the extra mile has the effect of cutting off that cycle by denying the need to reciprocate. It makes society function more smoothly in the end when people go out of their way not to be provoked. You don't need God to understand that compromise and turning a blind eye to insult usually works out better in the end. Gandhi turned the logic almost into a science. His "satyagraha" strategies very effectively undercut the efforts of his opponents to rationalize their violent behavior, and they strongly influenced nonviolent protest in the turbulent 60s, especially in the Civil Rights Movement. This isn't acting like God, though. It is acting like we would want God to act. That is how such things find their way into lots of religious scripture, not just Christian scripture.
...You don't really have any way of knowing God's judgment and valuation standards. There is no objective method for discovering them.
Well, there is. Revelation (i.e. Bible). We know from there that humans were created in God's image.
If the Bible were a reliable way of knowing God's judgment, then everybody would interpret it the same. They do not, and that is just speaking about people who accept the Bible as morally authoritative, by no means the majority of people on the planet. Interpretations of scripture are notoriously subjective. I repeat: there is no objective method for discovering God's judgment and evaluation standards, just an ongoing dispute over who gets to promote which "objective standard" as God's will.
Beyond that though, we know that God values us because He created us. Otherwise, He would not have created us. We can infer that all humans are equal in the eyes of God because such an inference is logical in light of what we know about human biology. Thus, even without revelation, merely by postulating God, we can infer the moral cornerstones in the objective framework that I have set out.
Nonsense. All you are saying is that God values everything, because he created everything. He values people no more highly than he values ants and trees. When we look at biology, we see that there are differences everywhere. Some people are strong, some weak, some smart, some stupid, some attractive, some unattractive, etc., etc. We aren't all born with the same abilities or advantages in life. Some are exposed to horrible circumstances, whereas others live out their lives in relative comfort and security. Life is unfair, and that completely undermines your argument.
It would seem so if we could all just agree on which passages to derive our "few basic propostions" from, but that is everybody's subjective judgment, isn't it?
Mine would be the minimum necessary to formulate an objective morality. One which all those who share the religion would agree. In addition, Jesus himself said the law and the prophets hang on two commandments. Loving God and loving your neighbor as yourself ("neighbor" as Jesus makes clear, meaning everyone). Those would be consistent with the three principles I have set out.
Nice sentiments, but you seem to have missed the point. Your position really reduces to subjective morality. It is just that you want your particular judgments to be branded "objective" and to therefore trump those who claim to have moral standards that do not agree with yours.
Just because people have different views about what the Biblical text means does not mean those differing views are equally valid.
By what criteria? I keep asking you for such criteria. What is the objective method for determining "objective morality"? You only offer your own subjective opinions, which you then declare "objective".
That's your explanation of Divine Silence? Well, we've been over the free will issue before, and I can only reiterate my take on it. I see no coherent argument that God's absence robs of us our free will any more than it robbed our Jewish and Christian ancestors when he showed up to "explain" things to them.
It did rob them of some of their free will. And, as SJ has explained elsewhere, God's presence entailed the imposition of some specific dos and donts would not otherwise have been imposed.
I don't see how his appearance robbed anyone of their free will. They still had the ability to sin and disbelieve, according to the Bible. God didn't need to show up in person to give us all a sense of right and wrong. He certainly didn't show up anywhere but among the Jews, according to your favored scripture. So he didn't do a very complete or effective job of getting his word spread out to all those he ruled over.
...It's not as if Jesus would have had no historical precedent for commenting on the barbarity of [slavery].
He might have, and we might simply not have a record of it. Maybe it was not a frequent topic due to the audience he spoke to. Perhaps he considered other things were more important to talk about. There is simply no basis for concluding that he condoned it.
Jesus didn't think that slavery was an important issue? It was to slaves, and its morality had already come under criticism in the public record of those times. The fact that Jesus was relatively silent on the issue speaks volumes. It suggests that the people who created the scripture didn't think of slavery as immoral.Did God not understand that the ambiguity in the Bible would be used to justify slavery in future generations? On the one hand, you see the Bible as a method for understanding God's will. On the other hand, you find all sorts of excuses for ignoring its obvious lacunae.
You don't get it. It is not about missing the cow. It's about the fact that nobody would dare try to get the cow out of the way. It has the right of way in all traffic.
And that's because cows are considered special, right?
Yes. I would consider "sacred" a variety of "special".

Still, except for the Jains (which views all life sacred), cows are special. You give a lot of practical reasons, but those are your own right? The reverence given cannot be completely explained by those practical reasons. And the reverence given is, well, irrational.
I was giving my personal opinion of why the special reverence for cows arose in India. Clearly, the practice goes back many centuries, because there are "nandris"--statues of sacred cows--around ancient Hindu temples. You may call it irrational, but most religious beliefs are.
Oh, but it is. The dharmic tradition is much more conservative in that people are expected not to try to rise above their station in life.
The Hindu variant right? But not the Buddhist variant. Or at least some looking on the internet suggests there is a difference there.
I honestly don't know much about Buddhist attitudes towards castes. In India, Christians in some areas came to be identified with the Brahmin class, and that is one reason that many untouchables find it attractive to convert.
And even so, within your caste, the principles of worth, equality, proportionality, etc are applied. This of course is consistent with the history of humanity failing to draw the equality correctly. As humanity progresses, it realizes that these are arbitrary and undraws them.
By "correctly", you mean as God sees it. But we only have your word and your personal take on scripture to support God's view. That's how you want it, isn't it?

...All societies seem to have a concept of murder, even if they draw the lines differently. That points to at least an objective core moral principle. And as I have said earlier, there is social learning. People realize that a line excluding someone from equal status is arbitrary and irrational and that line is undrawn. Dueling is an interesting example that goes to worth rather than to equality. But it is a violation of the recognition that humans are made in God's image.
That depends on who is describing God's image. I imagine that his image will always fit the preconceptions of the locals. Not very "objective".