What do you care? It isn't like you believe it. If you did believe it, you'd know that the same message of condemnation is followed immediately with a message of hope and promise.
You're argument is pretty absurd, I'm afraid. It would be like being offended that you couldn't go to a concert unless you had to first buy a ticket, ignoring the obvious fact that tickets are cheap and available. Your argument would only amount to something if it was maintained that you can't go to the concert without buying a ticket but then no tickets were made available.
Incidentally, you object to the standard of 'belief' as being the 'ticket.' Just out of curiosity, what would you prefer? Do you think that it would be more divine if God required you to sacrifice your oldest son as an offering? He should only save people if they give 90% of their income to charity? From where I stand, merely requiring 'belief' is pretty generous, like the concert giver giving the tickets away. Your attitude seems to be captured by imagining you standing outside while the concert is going on, pissed that to get in you had to have a ticket at all, even if it was free.
Or you just think that if God is divine he shouldn't have any 'requirements' at all. So, even if a person was a hostile jackass who hated God and everything he stood for and didn't want any part in God (all that violent backstory you abhor), God should just let him in. In other words is your contention that God should give you paradise on your terms and on your terms alone?
I have trouble coming up with any way to consider your objections here as being even slightly rational. The best shot would seem to be on the argument that a person can't be blamed if they've never heard about the 'concert' at all, nor that they needed tickets- even if they are free.
But as challenging as that objection might be, it doesn't apply to you. You, clearly, are aware of the terms, and reject them.