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Zagzagel

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Why are Christians so darn stubborn?
« on: November 01, 2008, 04:01:48 PM »

I have been involved with several message boards and spoke to various people with a belief in God (over the past 4 years).  For example:  JW's, Mormons, Spurgeonites, Calvinists, Universalists, etc.  I don't know about you but I've noticed that Christians are the most stubborn people of all.

When speaking to the mentioned groups above they all have a "banning rule" or something like that.  Or when the JW comes to my door they have this rule that I must listen to them and that is that.. etc.  I was suprised that the Spurg groups, and Calvinists included, are just like Mormons and JW's in that area.  They are only happy if you listen.  I was very suprised that some of my so-called Universalist friends are exactly the same.  lol... not suprised really since we are all human. 

But what suprises me is that the most stubborn people are the Christians.. they don't ban (unless the situation reasonably calls for it).. are very patient. (too patient sometimes I think)... forgiving... etc.

This is just a rant.  I am thankful that this site, the sntjohnny.com forum is probably the best message board that I've experienced since I connected with the WWW.

And.. I've learned alot from you guys here.. and gals.  Thanks.

 
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Re: Why are Christians so darn stubborn?
« Reply #1 on: November 03, 2008, 09:23:10 AM »

Hi Zag,
I'm curious, do you mean by "Universalists" "Universalists/Unitarians"?

Also, do you mean by "Christians are the most stubborn people of all" that all the groups you mention are "Christians"?

I am also curious what Universalist board banned you and why if I may ask?

I am one who believes in Universalism.

It might not have anything to do with the group one belongs to but it might have something to do with the maturity level of the person you spoke with that will not listen to your side.

I will admit thought that the J.W.'s I think are not allowed to consider other views.



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Re: Why are Christians so darn stubborn?
« Reply #2 on: November 03, 2008, 02:23:26 PM »

I have been involved with several message boards and spoke to various people with a belief in God (over the past 4 years).  For example:  JW's, Mormons, Spurgeonites, Calvinists, Universalists, etc.  I don't know about you but I've noticed that Christians are the most stubborn people of all.

Not surprising given that the world hates Christianity, and thus going against the world is only natural for a Christian. Nothing worse than someone who's timid about their beliefs.
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Re: Why are Christians so darn stubborn?
« Reply #3 on: November 03, 2008, 03:41:58 PM »

The world hates christianity?  Spare us the hyperbolic victim complex, EB, it's not pretty.

And i can't really support the OP.  i don't think christians are particularly more stubborn than anyone else in the world with a strong belief in something, theists or atheists.  Everyone reasons for their own ideology, whether they realise it or not.
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Re: Why are Christians so darn stubborn?
« Reply #4 on: November 03, 2008, 04:08:13 PM »

The world hates christianity?  Spare us the hyperbolic victim complex, EB, it's not pretty.

Hehehe. It be more woeful if I actually cared what the world thinks.

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Re: Why are Christians so darn stubborn?
« Reply #5 on: November 03, 2008, 06:41:35 PM »

DB,

EB is speaking of world in the theological sense.  You gotta brush up on your Christianese.

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Re: Why are Christians so darn stubborn?
« Reply #6 on: November 04, 2008, 07:36:59 AM »

SJ,

"Speaking of world in the theological sense"?   :-k  Could you elaborate on that?  How is the world in the theological sense different from the world in the actual sense?

You gotta brush up on your Christianese.

Well i'll work on that.  It looks like a good skill to have, especially if it allows one to claim exemption for any statement made which in retrospect appears to be incoherent, contradictory or flat-out delusional by explaining that it was meant "in the theological sense".  If only there was a secular version of that...

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Re: Why are Christians so darn stubborn?
« Reply #7 on: November 04, 2008, 08:09:15 AM »

"Speaking of world in the theological sense"?   Think  Could you elaborate on that?  How is the world in the theological sense different from the world in the actual sense?"

The use here is of 'world' in the materialistic, narcissistic, selfish, ambitious, egotistic, rationalizing (ie, I'm stealing this guy's cupcake, but its ok), I am my own master, I am god, sense.

This certainly can dovetail into the sense that you took it as but it need not.  See for example John 3:16-21 and 15:18

 
"Well i'll work on that.  It looks like a good skill to have, especially if it allows one to claim exemption for any statement made which in retrospect appears to be incoherent, contradictory or flat-out delusional by explaining that it was meant "in the theological sense".  If only there was a secular version of that..."

There is a secular version of that.  It's called "every word that comes out of the secular mouth."  ;)

No, but seriously, this is really a reach, don't you think?  an exemption for 'any statement'?  When was the last time you saw someone deploy this exemption?  No, it is perfectly reasonable for words to be used within a certain context which might be taken by others differently.  Medical terminology, for example.  Theoretical physics (like, 'spin').  And if you asked me to mail you a rubber the reaction would be different then if I asked you to send me a rubber.   Cuz you're in England and all.*

But I would protest the point you think is 'incoherent' or delusional.  You like to think that Christianity holds all this sway and any concern they might have about being persecuted is unfounded.  That is incoherent and delusional.  But I don't expect you to see it or agree.  You are, after all, part of the world.  ;)

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Re: Why are Christians so darn stubborn?
« Reply #8 on: November 04, 2008, 05:32:15 PM »

Hi Zag,
I'm curious, do you mean by "Universalists" "Universalists/Unitarians"?

Also, do you mean by "Christians are the most stubborn people of all" that all the groups you mention are "Christians"?

I am also curious what Universalist board banned you and why if I may ask?

I am one who believes in Universalism.

It might not have anything to do with the group one belongs to but it might have something to do with the maturity level of the person you spoke with that will not listen to your side.

I will admit thought that the J.W.'s I think are not allowed to consider other views.


I have discovered that there are actually many kinds of "universalists" out there.  I guess there are branch's out there, besides the branching out of Universalists, and it would include those that broke from other groups like Calvinists, JW's, etc.

To your second question... I have come to my own determination/conclusion/definition who is proper "Christian".  I find that some can be found in all the above movements. 

To your third question.  I forget how many times I was banned by my own Universal friends.. but that is part of the game when you challenge an idea.  Once I was banned for just mentioning your name actually.  But I won't devulge the name of that group.

How I am here on this forum is what I have been on every message board that I've joined.  I haven't been banned here yet.  haha

Although my views (about what is Christian) differs from some here, I consider most "Christians" here very much Christian.  This has a lot to do with the Christ likeness that those involved here show.  I'm writing this all quickly because supper is ready... very hungry. 

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Re: Why are Christians so darn stubborn?
« Reply #9 on: November 05, 2008, 08:35:36 AM »

Zag, that is interesting you got banned just for mentioning my name LOL! Was that the unie board on CARM that used to be?

I always feel sorry for people who are banned as I too know the feeling.

Yea, there are different Universalists. Hyper spiritual, U/U, Kingdom, Dispensationalist, Charismatic, etc. Me? I'm just a believer, who, among many other things I believe also believe God will save all.

You seem so reasonable in your posts. I can't imagine you getting banned.

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